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Roll Models: It Starts With You

I write about the world I live in and the clothes I wear when I make my way through that world as a 50+, curvy, disabled woman. I'm very aware that these things alone make me very different, and it would be easy for me to descend into bitterness and resentment But there is always a bigger picture, an aspect of what I'm doing, that I try to impart in my posts, even if only through implication. You have to make the best of what you have in life.

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Kimmie Jones' Tao Of Shoes

I'm so happy to have another guest post from my beautiful, talented IRL friend Kimmie Jones, also known as That Girl in the Wheelchair. Yup, she actually puts up with me in real life! This time around Kimmie shares her practical experiences and advice - her Tao, if you will - of shoes.

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Celebrating 53

Last week the ladies of Nashville's 12th & Broad wrote a piece about birthdays. It turns out they are all Taureans (born between April 20 and May 20) and they shared their thoughts about where they are in their lives and how they celebrated their birthdays. As a double-Taurus myself I can't help but feel a sense of Sisterhood with my new Nashvillians friends, even if they are much younger than I am. Almost everything they're experiencing is old hat to me, but that doesn't mean that my life has run it's course and I'm ready to "go quietly into that good night".

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Save Rhoda: One Dog At A Time

This is a Mother's day post, even if it is a very unconventional one. I'll show you my nice outfit, but I really, really want you to watch the video at the end all the way through. Since tomorrow is my birthday, I'll consider your viewing the video as a birthday present - but get some tissues first because you'll need them.

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Hands On A Comet

We blog because we want to share a part of who we are with the world. Our fashion sense, our knowledge, our life experiences, are what we pour onto our posts in search of validation and commonality. It's become my mission to show you my passions expressed in my town with my physical limitations at my stage in life. That includes fashion and trends and giveaways but also a steady push towards social awareness and acceptance of the disabled.

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